Personally I like to be in Scarecrow realm. Its where my friends are but well, ever since others have been invading I'm starting to move out of it. Scarecrow is basically the main realm of a different fansite... and others have started to invade and start with the gifting and dating stuff, ugh annoying.
I am still going to say Scarecrow, because that has people I can trust and the people there are usually friendly (usually....)